Sexy Tip #10 For Moms

Use what you've got.

Let's face it, not many of us Moms have tons of money to throw around. These days some of us hardly have enough to pay the bills, and put food on the table with the way things have been going with the economy.

SO...use what you've got.

Sexy doesn't have to mean spending all kinds of money on fancy lingerie that you'll only wear once, it can be as simply as throwing on a T-shirt or apron on, and a pair of heels, and "sweeping" the kitchen floor. Add bending over discretely infront of your partner, and a quick grazing of your fingers up his arm to his lips, and you have created sparks of romance.

You might be surprised at how for some men, it takes very little to turn them on. And...for others, well maybe you need to use your imagination, but not your walet.


Sincerely,

Mama of Romance
xoxo

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Sexy Tip #9 For Moms

Call the one you love.

Pick up the phone, and give them a ring. Surprise them, and talk in a sexy voice.

For many of us, it's been ages since we talk on the phone like we did when we were dating. Now you live together, and in the instance that you're not together, when one is at work, the average conversation has something to do with "Honey, could you pick up ____ before you come home?" Or, "What do you mean that bill didn't get paid!"

While normal, everyday conversations are great, and are essential to keeping the lines of communication open, throwing in a sexy conversation every once, and a while will help to keep the romance alive.

Surprise your partner, by simply calling to say something sweet, or sexy.

Sincerely,

Mama of Romance
xoxo

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Taking a Cue From Halle

Here's what 42 year-old Halle Berry, new Mom of Nahla (born in March) has to say after being deamed the "Sexiest Woman Alive" by Esquire Magazine....

"Sexiness is a state of mind - a comfortable state of being," she says. "It's about loving yourself in your most unlovable moments."

I think that all of us Moms should take a cue from Halle Berry. By all means, I have not got a body like Halle Berry, or any other superstar, as I'm certain that many of us everyday Moms do not sport the superstar physique, but, I totally agree with her.

That even at the most "unlovable moments," if you love yourself, you are capable of being sexy - whether you know it, or not.

I bow down to Halle for getting her great body back in shape in such a speedy manner, and having such kind words to say. If she can do it, then we all can too.


Sincerely,

Mama of Romance
xoxo

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Dish Em' Up - The Top 10 Turn-Ons For Women

Not too long ago, I posted The Top 10 Turn-Ons For Men....well Ladies, now it's our turn!

Here's what MY list of turn-ons looks like (please share yours by commenting below!)

1. Romantic - this one is obvious (especially if you read my blog frequently!) Got to have the romance. Sweet words, kind thoughts, surprises, and of course being a good old fashioned gentleman.

2. Caring - In spades. Have the ability to be caring, loving, protective, responsible, and look after your lady, and family like they are no other.

3. Intelligent - He has to be able to carry a good conversation, have good values, morals, know how to do things, stand up for himself, and speak his mind.

4. Funny - It's no fun spending all your time with a big ol' sack of potatoes that just sits there. Better one that makes you laugh, is excited, energetic, and fun.

5. Understanding - I don't care what anyone says; women are more complicated than men. And, it takes an undertanding fellow to not only be happy around, but to enjoy his lovely, intricate lady. This includes being a good listener. As women, don't we all just want to be heard, and to be understood.

6. Respectful - There's nothing worse than a man that has no respect for women. He needs to not only speak respectfully, but also act in a respectful manner. One that would never in his life think of hurting the woman he's with, or anyone for that matter.

7. Has to have a cute butt - There is nothing quite like a cute butt, especially one that he can flaunt by wearing sexy boxer briefs, or nice jeans. Butt, naked is best, tehee.

8. Muscles - Especially in the arms, chest, and stomach. If you have them great, if you don't..hey at least it gives you motivation to work on them.)

9. Motivation - You can call this ambition, or hard-working, or all of these. I know so many women who always complain that their husbands are lazy, or won't do what they say they are going to do. It is such a turn on to see a man with a drive, including a good sex drive.

10. Affirmation - I'm all about the positive. Anyone is a turn off when all they do is grumble, and complain all of the time. It's nice to be around a person with a postive outlook on life, your relationship, and on you.

This is MY list, but I cannot wait to hear what YOU have to say!

So, what turns YOU on!???!

What ever it is, I'll be posting it as soon as the results are in.

Thanks in advance you Sexy Ladies!

Sincerely,

Mama of Romance
xoxo

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Sexy Tip #6 For Moms

A sexy little note.

Nothing is more intriguing, romantic, and surprising as finding a sexy little note tucked some where for your partner to find.

I can remember my absolute favourite one. I was taking a long deserved shower, and the kids were all in bed.

At the end of my shower, I drew the curtain open to grab my towel, and low and behold on the toilet seat was a little note.
It read:

"You are the love of my life, a wonderful wife, and mother, you mean so much to me, please come and meet me upstairs."

Now, this little note however little, certainly held an immense meaning, and had me melting inside. My partner took the time, and the thought to surprise me, to be romantic, and to say the words too often that go unsaid.

When I went upstairs, I walked into a room lit with candles, and strawberries, and my wonderful husband who for tonight was sweeping me off of my feet.

All it takes is a few words. Romantic, or sexy.

I know a little note is a great way for surprising my husband, when I might write something like:

“You are so hot, and I want to rip all of your clothes off, and make you feel good.”

It drives him wild.

I think that writing notes, is something that has been lost in time, is so easy, and is a great way to portray whatever it is that you want to say, with a lot of impact.


Sincerely,

Mama of Romance
xoxo

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Sexy Tip #5 For Moms

Think Condiments.

An easy, and inexpensive way to add a little excitement, and taste to your sex life is as easy as opening up your fridge, or pantry door.

My pick...chocolate of course. Chocolate mousse that is. Just add milk, and it's a yummy chocolaty goodness that easily sticks to most surfaces, and can be even more easily licked off.

What I like most about it - it's not too sweet, low in calories, sugar, you don't easily get tired of the taste, and....oh there's just so many reasons why I love it.

Just think - it can make even the grossest of things taste good!

Cost: a few dollars.

Benefits: Add tons of tasty fun to your sex life, and not to your waist line. show how much you love your partner, and satisfy your cravings for chocolate at the same time.

Sincerely,

Mama of Romance
xoxo

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Featured Post: Mom of 5...Still Feeling Young and Sexy

Recently, I've had the pleasure of meeting a fellow Mom Blogger through Twitter. She is an amazing woman! She is a Mom of 5, doesn't look a day over 29, and still feels, and looks Sexy!

Her name is Cheryl, and she is the Mom behind The Daily Blonde. She is also the Web Manager for Alpha Women, an exciting website for Women to get together.

I highly urge you to pop by The Daily Blonde http://dailyblonde.blogspot.com/, and drop her a line - her blog is very witty, she is so hilarious.

Cheryl was kind enough to write a post for Sex Diaries of a Mom, and it's featured below.

Thanks Cheryl, I'm so glad to have had the pleasure of meeting you, when I'm *29 I hope I feel as Sexy as you!

Mom of Five...Still Feeling Young and Sexy

by The Daily Blonde

Giving birth is a beautiful thing.

However, it's not so easy to feel like the sexy little thing you were the night you conceived your bundle of joy.

No matter how big and manly your partner is, nothing can compare to the size of the giant cantaloupe sized head that exits from the area previously known as the port of pleasure.

No one can dispute that giving birth is emotional and unforgettable....but there's nothing sexy about it.

How do you get your sexy back?

Many women get so caught up in finding the best baby stroller or discussing which nursing bra gives the most support they forget that being sexy got them the baby.

Imagine the thrill your partner must feel when he sees you in your best over sized t-shirt with the spit up stains on the shoulder. The granny panties are the added touch.

Ladies, just because you had a baby, doesn't mean you need to forget that your curvier (and more exhausted) body is still a boiling hot sex machine.

You've just got to get your sexy on.

I've been a mother for almost 24 years. I'm 45 and I've heard I'm in my prime.

How unfortunate that I'm single, but I'm not planning on losing my "prime" for at least another 30 years.

As a single parent of 5 children ranging in age from 7 to 23, you'd think I'd have thrown in the towel when it comes to feeling even remotely sexy, or just thinking about sex.

That is sooooo far from the truth.

Let's get a few things straight: I think about sex more than the average man.

I've been told it's good I'm alone; I might kill a man with my sexual appetite - I hope my older daughters aren't reading this.

Then again...they should be happy their Mom still has a sex drive after popping out five rather sizable babies and surviving 7 years post divorce from a man who kissed like a St. Bernard.

Sexy is a state of mind.

It doesn't matter that I could be a bit thinner or that I'm only 5'3. I think it's important to be a woman but be your own person.

Confidence just screams "I am one hot sex goddess".

Yes, we all have busy lives and so much to do, that we put sex at the bottom of the list. But, think back to when you met your significant other...you couldn't wait to jump on the wild pony of love.

Hey, he might be tired too. Try imagining about the quickie you had while you're burping the baby for the 50th time....it just makes the day so much more manageable.

I'm young, maybe in some people's eyes 45 is mid-life.

Not to me.

This is the start of my life. I so enjoy being a mother. It's the most rewarding part of my life.

I also love being a woman...let's spell it out:

Wild...Orgasmic...My Butt is Still Sexy...All Night Long...Nympho

I don't care what you have to do tonight. Put the kids to bed and get in bed naked.

Your partner will either have a heart attack or will call in sick tomorrow and adore you more than he already does.

Don't you dare wear that ugly t-shirt in bed while you do the horizontal mambo...men don't notice an extra few inches on your hips just like women don't complain about an extra few inches.....well, you know where I'm going with that.

I'm going to go get ready to get in bed. I'm exhausted and the kids are finally heading to sleep. I'll live vicariously through all of you sexy mamas...until I find prince charming. Then I'll be too busy with him to preach to you about being sexy.......Sincerely, Cheryl of The Daily Blonde.

Stop by The Daily Blonde, and leave Cheryl a comment.

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Sexy Tip #4 For Moms

Paint Your Partner. I am not kidding.

Come on, you're a Mom....you must have some finger paints laying around the house somewhere, or perhaps a recipe to make your own non-toxic paint. No? Well here's an easy recipe, all you need is a little food colouring...now you don't have any excuses as to why NOT to try this!

Think of how much fun you can have by becoming each other's canvases.

Homemade Paint

White hand lotion

2-3 drops washable kids paint or food colouring

2-3 drops liquid hand soap

Squirt lotion into small cup. Add soap and paint. Use brush or q-tip to apply.

Before you become a wild artist though....I suggest laying down a tarp, or some garage bags. Oh, and it's always fun to take a few snapshots of your masterpieces when you've finished. Thank goodness for digital cameras, and the ability to print pictures on your own!

Good Luck Madam Picasso!

Cost: Pennies to a few dollars.

Benefits: Talk about making your partner's head turn - literally as you stroke your paint brush against the side of their cheek. The benefits to doing this include becoming closer intimately, with little cost, getting to know each other better, and spicing up your sex life.

Sincerely,

Mama of Romance

xoxo

Sexy Tip #3 For Moms

Lose the Granny Panties.

Too many of us Moms are guilty of this. I'll even admit that I like to still sport my maternity underwear because they are so COMFY.

For practical reasons, you might not be able to rip out the thong on a daily basis, but try to make it a weekly ritual, like Thong Thursday, even if you throw it on just as you're getting ready to be intimate.

Cost: One pair of sexy undies, unless you already have a pair.

Benefits: Remind your partner, and yourself how sexy you are, and remind each other about the good old days when dressing sexy was something you did more often.

A joke on this subject:

Wife: "Where's the romance??!!! Huh? You used to be so romantic!"

Husband: "It's in your underwear drawer."

Sincerely,

Mama of Romance

xoxo

Sexy Tip #2 For Moms

Get dressed up, only to get undressed.

Cost: Use what you have, just an apron, and nothing else would suffice, and there won't be a cost. Or buy a cute little outfit.

Benefits: Feel sexy, and silly. Get yourself excited in anticipation while preparing this little surprise for your partner. It's always fun to undress each other, especially if you're wearing something sexy.

Sincerely,

Mama of Romance
xoxo

Sexy Tip #1 For Moms

An easy, and fun way to turn up the sexyness factor in bed - slide on a pair of sexy heels.

Cost: No money spent.

Benefits: Feel better about yourself, feel sexy, and get some wear out of those party shoes that would otherwise be burried in your closet, collecting dust. Plus, give your partner a reason to get excited, surprised, and intrigued.

Sincerely,

Mama of Romance
xoxo