Featured Post: Mom of 5...Still Feeling Young and Sexy

Recently, I've had the pleasure of meeting a fellow Mom Blogger through Twitter. She is an amazing woman! She is a Mom of 5, doesn't look a day over 29, and still feels, and looks Sexy!

Her name is Cheryl, and she is the Mom behind The Daily Blonde. She is also the Web Manager for Alpha Women, an exciting website for Women to get together.

I highly urge you to pop by The Daily Blonde http://dailyblonde.blogspot.com/, and drop her a line - her blog is very witty, she is so hilarious.

Cheryl was kind enough to write a post for Sex Diaries of a Mom, and it's featured below.

Thanks Cheryl, I'm so glad to have had the pleasure of meeting you, when I'm *29 I hope I feel as Sexy as you!

Mom of Five...Still Feeling Young and Sexy

by The Daily Blonde

Giving birth is a beautiful thing.

However, it's not so easy to feel like the sexy little thing you were the night you conceived your bundle of joy.

No matter how big and manly your partner is, nothing can compare to the size of the giant cantaloupe sized head that exits from the area previously known as the port of pleasure.

No one can dispute that giving birth is emotional and unforgettable....but there's nothing sexy about it.

How do you get your sexy back?

Many women get so caught up in finding the best baby stroller or discussing which nursing bra gives the most support they forget that being sexy got them the baby.

Imagine the thrill your partner must feel when he sees you in your best over sized t-shirt with the spit up stains on the shoulder. The granny panties are the added touch.

Ladies, just because you had a baby, doesn't mean you need to forget that your curvier (and more exhausted) body is still a boiling hot sex machine.

You've just got to get your sexy on.

I've been a mother for almost 24 years. I'm 45 and I've heard I'm in my prime.

How unfortunate that I'm single, but I'm not planning on losing my "prime" for at least another 30 years.

As a single parent of 5 children ranging in age from 7 to 23, you'd think I'd have thrown in the towel when it comes to feeling even remotely sexy, or just thinking about sex.

That is sooooo far from the truth.

Let's get a few things straight: I think about sex more than the average man.

I've been told it's good I'm alone; I might kill a man with my sexual appetite - I hope my older daughters aren't reading this.

Then again...they should be happy their Mom still has a sex drive after popping out five rather sizable babies and surviving 7 years post divorce from a man who kissed like a St. Bernard.

Sexy is a state of mind.

It doesn't matter that I could be a bit thinner or that I'm only 5'3. I think it's important to be a woman but be your own person.

Confidence just screams "I am one hot sex goddess".

Yes, we all have busy lives and so much to do, that we put sex at the bottom of the list. But, think back to when you met your significant other...you couldn't wait to jump on the wild pony of love.

Hey, he might be tired too. Try imagining about the quickie you had while you're burping the baby for the 50th time....it just makes the day so much more manageable.

I'm young, maybe in some people's eyes 45 is mid-life.

Not to me.

This is the start of my life. I so enjoy being a mother. It's the most rewarding part of my life.

I also love being a woman...let's spell it out:

Wild...Orgasmic...My Butt is Still Sexy...All Night Long...Nympho

I don't care what you have to do tonight. Put the kids to bed and get in bed naked.

Your partner will either have a heart attack or will call in sick tomorrow and adore you more than he already does.

Don't you dare wear that ugly t-shirt in bed while you do the horizontal mambo...men don't notice an extra few inches on your hips just like women don't complain about an extra few inches.....well, you know where I'm going with that.

I'm going to go get ready to get in bed. I'm exhausted and the kids are finally heading to sleep. I'll live vicariously through all of you sexy mamas...until I find prince charming. Then I'll be too busy with him to preach to you about being sexy.......Sincerely, Cheryl of The Daily Blonde.

Stop by The Daily Blonde, and leave Cheryl a comment.

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You Wouldn't Understand, Your Nipples Are Just Ornaments

When I was pregnant, my breasts, and nipples become very tender. Now, some women at that point apparently enjoy their partners touching them, but some, including myself found it to be completely intolerable.

After baby came, I nursed, and I protected my breasts, because in my mind, my breast milk was like LIQUID GOLD for my baby.

Other than that, I don't know why exactly I protected my breasts. I did so completely automatically, by instinct, and couldn't stop myself from protecting them like they were central to my baby's survival.

I know that if for WHATEVER reason my husband thought that he might cop-a-feel, or even look at my breasts side-ways, that I was prepared for a battle in which he would wind up with the purple nipples, and not me.

Afterall, his nipples are just ornaments. Why do men have nipples anyway?

Looking back, I can only imagine how scary I must have looked as I growled, and grimaced at him, signaling him to back off, like one of those scary women on a horror flick.

Let's just say that for the first several months, baby became the sole share holder of "Breast Enterprises."

I felt I had due cause to be so protective though. Afterall, it had been extremely difficult to nurse at first. Latching on was a really big challenge. After weeks of bleeding nipples, and excruciating pain, I was almost on the verge of giving up.

I never knew that I would have blisters on my breasts, never in my life.

Thank goodness for that yellow goo!

Just to reassure other new Moms out there, nursing did get better, and with all of my other children, breast-feeding became a walk in the park.

I am so thankful though that I was able to nurse, and I have no regrets.

It was more than four months before my baby was completely established at latching on correctly, nursed properly, and that for me nursing began to feel natural at all.

Once I finally became a little more relaxed about everything: motherhood, nursing, and getting back into the routine of having a love life, I was considering allowing my husband access to two of his favorite play toys again.

That notion was forgotten completely however after he groped my breasts just too much, and kept bugging me to drink my breastmilk.

No more breasts for you.

Now, I'm not sure if I am the only woman out there who has found herself in this situation, but l just couldn't hack being poked, and proded so much.

I mean, come on! Baby just nursed, and nursed, and nursed, and now you, a grown man wants to pull, and play with these breast too!? I think not.

Truth be told, I was even a little disgusted at the thought of my husband drinking my breastmilk, and I wasn't willing to share. Although admitedly, I allowed him to a time or two hoping that he would find it gross, and not want any more.

I was wrong.

Enough booby talk. Three kids later, and I'm still sensitive about this area of my body, and reluctant to give my husband full access.

I feel bad for him at times, and I do try to remind myself how much he enjoys them, but it's going to happen gradually I think.

That leaves me with a final question:

Are you protective of your breasts? I am.

Sincerely,

Mama of Romance

xoxo